The day Kent and I met my surgeon Dr. Anderson was also the day I met my nurse navigator Kendra. Dr. Anderson hadn’t received the results of my MRI yet, but he did have my marker information. The main concern was that the HER2 marker came back positive which meant that I would need to start with chemotherapy, then have surgery and more chemo and possibly radiation and finally hormone therapy.
Kendra talked to us about genetic testing and had me fill in my family medical history as I was spitting in a vial. She was super sweet and I knew she would be vital in this whole process. While we were talking, Dr. Anderson came in with my MRI results. There was something suspicious on the left side and they wanted to take another look with ultrasound. I knew then why God told me not to worry about what was already going on in my body. I was ready to trust Him with His plan and watch it unfold!
I had the ultrasound done a few days later, but the results were inconclusive. The tech and radiologist couldn’t find the abnormal spot that was on the MRI. This wasn’t the radiologist who had looked at my original mammogram and ultrasound and performed the biopsy. She’s the real expert and they wanted her opinion before filing a report. More waiting…
On December 16, Kent and I finally met my oncologist, Dr. Corum. He spent well over an hour asking me questions about my family history, how I found the tumor, what my lifestyle is like, all the tests I’ve been through, and talking to us about the type of cancer I have and what the treatment would look like. Just as the surgeon had said, he wants to start me on chemotherapy first. I’ll have 6 treatments total, 3 weeks apart. Then I’ll have surgery – depending on how much the chemo shrinks the tumor will depend on whether I will be a candidate for a lumpectomy or if I’ll have to do an entire masectomy. (Fortunately, the genetic testing came back negative so I don’t have to have a double masectomy based on that!) After surgery, I’ll continue one of the chemo drugs, which is actually an antibody that fights the HER2 proteins that want to keep multiplying, to finish out a year. Finally, I’ll have hormone treatments that will continue for 5-10 years in a pill form.
Tomorrow (December 20) I get my port placed. Monday, I will have my first chemo treatment! Praying that the side effects will be minimal and that I can enjoy Christmas!
Denise
I know zero about types of cancer or markers. I just know that you are showing a wonderful attitude of trusting God. Can’t go wrong trusting God!
Amy Warden
God has shown Himself so faithful already! 🙂
Karen
I’ll be praying that your treatment goes well and the side effects will be minimal. May you feel the loving arms of your savior and creator as you navigate this journey. ❤️
Amy Warden
Thank you, Karen! I appreciate your prayers – so far so good!
Eva Gomez
Dear Amy,
I am so sorry to read these news.
My sister was diagnosed with HER2 positive breast cancer in September (stage 1) with no lymphatic blasts.
She has already started her treatment and the tumor is reducing fast.
HER2 is a very good treatable tumour and if caught on time it has enourmous chances of being completely cured.
I can imagine what you and your family are going through.
I remember at the end of October how I spent my holiday week in Spain. I was with my sister every day at hospital and had as well the chance to talk to the oncologist. I also talked to other cancer patients and I was astonished how positive they all are.
It is incredible that you have to struggle through all that with the insurance. In Europe, at least in Spain and in Germany all is covered by the insurance, which is fantastic. In Spain, I was really astonished how well everything works. Patients do not need to care that much on who is going to pay the bills, they just care on getting well.
My sister is visiting us on 26th December and I will see her for first time without hair. She is doing well and she is not having much problem with the therapy. The sides effects are bearable and she goes working. She feels a bit bad 3-4 days after the chemotherapy, but afterwards she is doing well and goes to work and manages her team as usual.
I will pray for you every day! All the best for you and your family!
Whatever you need, you can ask me.
All the best for you and your family!
Eva
Amy Warden
That’s incredible, Eva! Yes, I’ve heard that the tumor typically responds well to treatment and I’m very grateful! I will be praying for your sister as well. Thank you so much for your encouragement and prayers!
Sara Golding
Amy, prayers for you today, and every step you take throughout the treatments and beyond.
Amy Warden
Thank you, Sara! <3
Margi Raddatz
Dear Amy
I was saddened to hear about your breast cancer, but relieved that it is treatable and not terminal. I have no real words of wisdom to offer, but I know and understand what you’re going through. It is such shock when you receive news of breast cancer, and I’ve learned during my struggles and that beyond treatments this disease effects almost every aspect of your life.
I love your strong faith and I will be sending prayers and hugs to you daily! It’s just another step in your journey, and I have faith that you will come out the other end stronger than ever.
Our cancers are a little different but if you ever need a listening ear, I am available to you anytime!
Hang in there!
All my love and prayers for you and your family!
Margi
Amy Warden
I have thought of you often in these past few weeks, Margi! I also pray for your strength and healing – you are such a positive and inspiring fighter! Thank you for your encouragement. <3
Gretchen Riley
Amy, Although I haven’t met you in person, I feel as though I’m getting to know you in the very short time I’ve been in the Soap Challenge Club. As a fellow midwesterner and Christian, my prayers are with you and your family as you navigate this path that God has chosen. He doesn’t give us tasks we can’t handle! So, cheers to your positivity and I look forward to meeting you soon at a nearby conference!
Hugs and prayers, Gretchen
Amy Warden
It’s so nice to know we have so much in common, Gretchen! Thank you so much for your prayers, and I will look forward to seeing you in June!
Tania Villalba
Hi Amy,
You are one of the most positive and cheerful people I have (sort of) met (through SCC)! I will be praying for you and know you may have a rough road ahead but I am certain you will come through! My friend had the same diagnosis and it was tough for a while but she is doing so well now. You have a zest for life that comes through in your videos and makes everyone around you a better person. I wish you all the best and will be thinking and praying extra hard for you and your family. Love, Tania
Amy Warden
Thank you for praying, Tania! I’m so glad to hear your friend is doing well! There are definitely more positive outcomes with this type of breast cancer than there used to be, and I am so very grateful.
Marina B
Amy, I am so very sorry to hear this news but I pray that God helps you get through it all. We have a wonderful Father that cares for us, and He won’t give more than we can carry. May God bless you and your family and keep you in His arms during this tough time!
Amy Warden
Thank you, Marina! I believe this experience will definitely be used for good. Resting in His peace!
Caroline K
Amy, it has saddened me to learn that you have been diagnosed with breast cancer! However, with your faith and the positive spirit you display, I’m quite certain that you will come through it. I wish you and your family a very happy Christmas and hope that 2020 – despite the odds – will see you full of positive energy and bring with it peace, strength of spirit and many happy moments to help you cope well with whatever difficulties you will have to face. You will be in my thoughts and prayers … all the best!
Caroline, Poland.
Amy Warden
Thank you so much, Caroline! I appreciate your encouragement and prayers!
Kristie
Dearest Amy, I’m so glad you are so positive through all of this, Laughter is natures best medicine. I’m so sorry you have to lose your hair, what a small sacrifice for a healthy life. You are the best and cant wait to see you come out on top. Prayers for you and your family, Much Love, Kristie
Amy Warden
Yes I agree, the hair will grow back. I do like my new haircut though! 🙂 Thanks so much for your encouragement and prayers, Kristie!
Tracy Boros
Praying for you tonight! Praying that the Chemo does the job & you are feeling well.
Amy Warden
Amen! Thank you, Tracy – so far so good!